But why do we as girls obsess over our looks so much? Recently I’ve been reading articles on the beauty-body industry for one of my classes. We’ve discussed reasons such as wanting to impress a significant-other, transforming one’s outside to match the way they feel inside, or for self-worth and confidence.
And while I do think those things are part of it, I KNOW that any solutions we talk about in class will not get at the root issues. We can blame the media, peer pressure, or men in general for the way that we obsess over our looks and the scummy way we may feel in comparing ourselves to others. But that will NEVER change unless we find wholeness and beauty in the fantastic and mystifying way that God created each of us so uniquely. Let’s consider…
Each of us are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14).
God created very good things (Genesis 1 & 2) including mankind and womankind.
The Lord delights in his people (Zephaniah 3:17).
Are you catching this? The God of the universe who carved out the depths of the Grand Canyon and paints majestic sunsets and dreamed of hundreds of kinds of butterflies, also made you and me as the pinnacle of creation and in His image (Genesis 1:26-27).
You may have heard this stuff before, but I think it’s something that we need to frequently be reminded of. We are God’s beloved children, and while it’s easy to get distracted by the world, that fact ought to change how we view ourselves. Our worth is not caught up in what our society currently deems to be beautiful (have you noticed how fast that changes anwyays?!), but in God’s unconditional love for us.
Of course, this doesn’t mean that we can’t care at all about our bodies. After all, He did make them. I know I rarely leave the house without mascara because otherwise my eyelashes are practically transparent. But I can’t let my appearance be my focus or I’ll be trapped in self-absorption. Ultimately I know that there’s nothing I can do that will increase or change God’s love for me. And really, His is the only opinion that matters.